Dating, Engagement, Wedding Planning And Marriage At 40+

Well at work and many other aspects of our lives, we become proficient at tasks by repetition, and through trial and error. It time, we can start to predict outcomes from actions we see or take. This destroys us at our age in dating.

Plastic surgery used in the right way is fine. Big boobs but never spending time in the gym is very unattractive. I realize the skin gets a bit crapey as we get older but eating right 90% of the time along with weight training can keep the skin youthful much longer. But being fit is a great way to spend retirement years. I need someone to spend the rest of my healthy, fit life with.

Point being is a woman is bad in bed she usually does not like sex. I don’t see the same research as you, Emily. I’d be happy to see your research though. Feel free to email me with the info.

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They warn women of older men who never married or has kids then they go on to tell them they are afraid of commitment and stuff. Early this year I lost my husband of 17 years. While initially it was great, for the last 5-6 years it was a living hell. I loved him dearly and could not tolerate the thought of him being alone, so I stayed married. Plus my son’s super attached to him.

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I am a fairly unique person and most importantly I try to be a good person and be kind to others. I walk through life just being me and I am generally well liked and respected by those who know me…….Can’t even get a woman think twice about me. At this point we have all been damaged, some of us to a rather high extent.

This type runs in my family and I’m so fortunate I learned it by watching the strong, brave women who raised me. My only concern is that intimacy requires a bit of vulnerability. I don’t know the answer, but there is something about humbling ourselves just enough to be open to others who want to be part of our lives. Once I hit the big 30 I realized that the majority of women who wanted a family had already had their children and I have zero interest in raising someone elses children. I tried online dating, although according to the site I was very popular (I’m 6’2″ and very fit) I went on a few dates then called it quits after a few weeks, lesson learned.

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A woman is immasculating if she asks for what she wants, because he doesn’t want to do it or can’t. And there’s the guy whose only language is sex. You have no other mind, no other purpose. The 40+ single independent women tired of the games looking for real partnership. A women who is smart, wise, and knows what she wants in a relationship and usually will not settle for anything less. She is highly independent and use-to taking care of herself and her family.

I am not exaggerating and the last time that didn’t happen was my second wife and that was in 2010. I feel like the woman, meaning, I have no clue if these girls actually like me or if they just want me inside of them. Truthfully, I have been single for two and a half years and I haven’t had feelings for any of the women I have met until about a month ago. After about the three hour time limit she jumps on me like an octopus, lol. I have not felt a connection like I did with her since my second wife. She was super enthusiastic about our making out and I knew it was going very quickly towards being naked.

After being married after 26 years, I’ve known my wif for over 30 years. Raised 2 daughters and after my kids got married my wife claims that we are emotionally disconnected. I work alot plus 1 hour drive times as well as alot of work to be done around our homestead. She is leaving me to go back to Milwaukee where our oldest daughter is with her hubby and child.

I live all over the world for a decade now (US for spring and fall, S.American/Asia for winter, Europe for summer) So, you can imagine my dating experience isn’t lacking. It was very interesting, thanks to all these dating apps, it made it easier to meet someone all the time. I accept that if one day I never find my partner that I am okay. I also don’t yearn of having kids or getting married I want the companionship and if marriage is important to him, I wouldn’t mind doing it for the love of my life. For me, my happiness is more important than anything. I would like to meet someone who is happy with themselves, kind to others, reliable, consistent, interesting, who appreciates traveling the world.

I am not looking at her as a vehicle to increase my standard of living. I don’t care if she shares her wealth with me, she can spend it on herself or save it. It baffles me when the Achievement Queen does not look at the situation and say combined we would have an annual income of $100,000. I understand your position, but I”m honestly sad for you. Just like I tell my women, there is nothing as yummy as having a committed, nurturing, loving partner to share your life. Yes, I know you had that before and it didn’t turn out.